Is He The One? Finding And Keeping Your Soulmate

ELUSIVE LOVE

As a professional psychic counselor for over 20 years who specializes in love and life issues, I see how hard it is for my clients to find true love. For most people it might not be difficult to get dates or be in short-term relationships, but it’s incredibly hard to find “the one.” First dates may go along wonderfully but never turn into anything long-term, or new relationships that seemed to have so much hope simply crash and burn, joining the wreckage of our past. Others find it almost impossible to even attract potential dates and spend months, years, even decades being alone, hoping and praying that their soulmate will find them at long last. Still others have completely given up on ever finding true love and have simply decided to stay in a cold or dysfunctional relationship, or remain alone.

For 32 years my relationships consisted of two unfulfilling and abusive marriages, one long-term relationship that ended badly, and a string of short-term relationship and dates that never went anywhere. It got to the point where I actually looked forward to spending the rest of my life alone! After all, who wants to deal with the pain and heartache of wanting a soulmate yet never finding him? I had my businesses, housework, hobbies, my kids and friends, who needed a guy?

Whenever loneliness struck I would remind myself that I shouldn’t base my life happiness on being with a man. I was an independent and strong woman with so much to be grateful for. As a spiritual being I told myself I was as fulfilled or as empty as I perceived myself to be.

Sure, we can convince ourselves we don’t need a life partner by our side, and maybe we don’t. But you know what? It’s something we want. It’s natural for our human selves and our loving spiritual selves to want someone kind and affectionate and compatible so share our life with. A soulmate won’t complete you or make you happy, but a soulmate can add to your happiness and help you to reach your full potential, just as you would do for him.

Obviously, there’s no shortage of people on the planet, so why is it so hard to find true love? This is why I wrote Is He The One? Finding and Keeping Your Soulmate. It covers the many pitfalls and obstacles we face while on the path to finding our soulmate, and ways you can overcome anything and everything that’s stopping you from enjoying the relationship you’ve always dreamed of. I’ll show you how to blast through your barriers and ultimately find and keep your Mr. Right.

I know this guidance and the exercises works since I ultimately found the mate of my soul, and have helped many of my clients do the same. If you’re ready to say goodbye to loneliness and unfulfilling relationships and welcome in the love of a lifetime, let’s get started. All you need is an open mind and complete honesty because we’re going to tackle some tough subjects. But I promise that if you can work up the courage to work with yourself, your outlook on love, and your intuition, then you’ll attract your soulmate and keep him!     

How To Use This Book

The way you use this book is completely up to you. Some people like reading it through all the way to the end then completing the exercises, while others like to do the exercises as they go along. There are those who don’t really like doing exercises at all, but will read the information and let their conscious and subconscious do the work for them. Then there are those who will skim the book, looking for topics that appeal to them and focus on those. There’s no right or wrong way to use this book, simply do what feels best to you and what works for you right now and come back to the book again later.

You’ll also notice that in the first parts of the book there are more activities but as we progress through the pages there are less. The reason for this is because people often start a self-help book with a lot of eagerness and determination but tend to lose steam. So, I’ll get you to tackle the most work in the beginning but as you learn about yourself and your soulmate-finding skills we’ll focus more on tips and guidance. 

Sprinkled throughout are positive affirmations that you can repeat to yourself daily. A great way to do this is to write each one on a Post-it and hang them up on your computer, bathroom mirror, desk, or any place you’ll regularly see them. 

If you want to get the most out of the book and are truly determined to find and keep your soulmate then I wouldn’t pass up any of the exercises. They’re meant to help you learn and grow in mind and spirit. Once you’ve finished this book you’ll understand yourself in ways you never had before. You’ll know why you’ve chosen the men you have and will be able to recognize true soulmate material when he comes your way.

LEARNING TO LISTEN

How many times have you been on a date with someone or even in a long-term relationship and thought they simply weren’t right for you? Maybe they gave off negative energy, or had an anger problem or confidence issues. Whatever it was, you were turned off and your higher-self tried to turn away from the potential relationship so you would avoid being hurt, humiliated, or simply unfulfilled.

Perhaps you listened to that little voice inside you and didn’t let things go any further or maybe you ended up marrying the person and wish you hadn’t. I’ve been there a few times. Not until I learned how to harness my natural intuitive abilities and put them to work did I finally attract a positive relationship.

If you’re reading this book now it’s because you know you want and deserve to be with your soulmate, but haven’t been able to find this person. By the time you finish this book and start putting the information and exercises into action, you’ll be able to attract an amazing love life. No longer will you have to wonder if someone is right or wrong for you. From now on you’ll know, within one date or less, if the person you’re interested in is soulmate material because you'll be listening to your intuition rather than ignoring it.

What if you have trouble meeting people and can’t imagine how or where you’ll find your soulmate? Have no fear, we’ll tackle that question too. Each section includes powerful exercises that will help you to become your best self so you’ll be happier with life in general and be the best soulmate for your soulmate.

No matter what your current “love pattern” is, you can and will ultimately find the mate of your soul. All it takes is courage, honesty, and determination—plus some help from your higher-self and the Universe. 

Let’s jump right in and explore some ways you can avoid the wrong relationships and attract the right one.

Affirmation - “I’m getting better every day. I will soon find and keep my ultimate True Love.”

The Truth About Soulmates

This is one of the areas that people ask me about the most, “Who is my soulmate and how do I find that person?” Before we get any further into the book I want to clear up some misconceptions about the topic of soulmates. The truth is, you have more than one soulmate. Thank goodness! Who wants to try and track down that one elusive person? Throughout each of your lives you’ve developed many soul connections and soulmates. Depending on how many times you’ve been reincarnated, the number of soulmates you can have increases. I know some people don't find that very romantic, but I think it's wonderful. The soul is meant to learn, grow, and love. We can certainly love more than one soul in our entire existence. True? Here are some of the most popular questions I’ve been asked about true love, along with my answers.

How many soulmates do I have?

In each life you have between 3-7 soulmates on Earth. You may meet up with several of them or only one, but the fact is you will indeed be reunited with at least one soulmate in every lifetime. You always are, you just might not be ready for him when he comes along though, which is one reason why so many women find themselves alone or in negative relationships.

How can I find my soulmate? 

I’ll cover this topic in detail throughout the book, but the main thing to keep in mind is to never worry about finding your soulmate. You will be brought together, and you have a better chance of recognizing this potential relationship if you’re open to it. Being open means you know you deserve true love and that you aren't so worried about finding this person that you actually create an energy block.

Yes, wanting something too much can become an obstacle. Our subconscious can get rather complicated on us. The best thing you can do to find “the one” is to work on yourself, become the best person you can be, enjoy life and know that the right person will come along when the time is right.

What things can I do to attract my soulmate?

This is both very easy yet infinitely difficult for people to follow. We always believe that good things are hard to come by and that change is difficult. First ask yourself if you’re truly ready for your soulmate. Look at your life as it is right now. Are you giving out the type of energy that will attract your true love?...